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ARE YOU TIRED OF WAITING???

Parents often ask me why everything takes so long.
Referrals to Counsellors, Paediatricians, Speech and Language Therapists, Educational Psychologists and CAMHS all lose valuable time for your child when you think they need help NOW!

If this is your (primary or nursery aged) child, please give me a call or drop me an email.
I can give you lots of ideas and suggestions to support your child whilst they are waiting for further assessment. Initial 10 minute chat completely free! No obligation whatsoever. Check me out here first https://www.thechildsperspective.co.uk/

Now I will be waiting to hear from YOU! enquiries@thechildsperspective.co.uk or 07746 756871.

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Lockdowns linked to 1000% rise in child sex imagery

Know what your child is watching, on the internet? This BBC article suggests a 1000% rise in child sex imagery linked to lockdowns. It’s worth checking your security settings, for sure…..
Need bespoke advice about your child from an Early Years Teacher and qualified SENCo?
Give me a call and we can have a chat on 07746756871 or email me at enquiries@thechildsperspective.co.uk.
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Our children need to be heard, when they tell us that they want to stop doing something.

Our children need to be heard, when they tell us that they want to stop doing something. It shows them that we respect them and are concerned for their mental health.
It’s a skill we all need to use, as adults. Let’s work hard to listen and respond to our children’s wishes so that they can understand and use the vocabulary as adults.
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New Year, New Start!

First five parents to contact me can receive their report at half price!
Now that the Christmas holidays are over, many parents find that having spent more time with their child makes their difficulties become more obvious. Do you have a child under 11 years? Are you worried about their behaviour or development? Need advice about how to help them and who to turn to next?
I am a qualified Teacher and SENCo, with 28 years experience in helping children and their families, to get the help they need.
I can help with any of the following issues with your child:
– Behaviour issues
– Child mental health including anxiety
– Special Educational Needs
– Legislation regarding children with special educational needs
– Developmental delays
– Learning disability
– Parenting
– Problems accessing support for your child
I will spend 10 minutes having an initial discussion over the phone. I will then arrange a video call to discuss the issues around your child.
I will then write a bespoke report, specifically tailored to the needs of your child. This will include offering recommendations as well as signposting you to other professionals who may be able to help.
Please view my website below for further information:
Call now! I can’t wait to help you and your child.
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As Christmas day approaches, I think it is important for adults to be reminded about consent

As Christmas day approaches, I think it is important for adults to be reminded about consent. This is about trusting our children to decide how and with whom they will share their affection. Affection should never be forced from a child as they will learn that they cannot speak up about what happens to them when an adult approaches them.
I particularly love the final line of this article “If an adult gets offended because a child doesn’t kiss them or want to be near them, then really it’s up to the adult to address these feelings of abandonment, not the child to make it better.”
Enough said.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jan/08/shouldnt-force-child-kiss-grandparent-consent-sex-education
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Is your child anxious about Christmas?

Christmas plays are upon us! Children are under a lot of pressure at this time of year- to dress up, to learn words, to attend parties, to have a different routine, to meet up with unfamiliar relatives and to be good. Not all our children are excited! For some children, this time of year can make them very anxious.
Worried about your child’s anxiety? Struggling to access support? Call me for a chat on 07746756871 or email me at enquiries@thechildsperspective.co.uk.
I have loads of suggestions and things you can try to help your child cope.
Have a look at this excellent article by Young Minds:
https://www.youngminds.org.uk/parent/blog/how-to-help-your-child-if-christmas-makes-them-anxious/
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Supporting a child who may be dealing with grief

The death of Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth provides us with an opportunity to think about how we talk to children about grief.
Many adults feel the need to ‘soften’ the news by saying “They’ve gone to live with the angels” or “They will be watching over us.”
Experience has shown me that children are way more resilient than we think, and just need death to be explained to them honestly and in language they can understand. They need to ask questions and they need to be allowed to grieve, in the same way as adults do. Attempts to soften the news for them can be very confusing and unhelpful. Have a read of this article from Child Bereavement UK.
Queen Elizabeth taught all of us so much but gave us the perfect opportunity to talk to our children about loyalty, dignity, privacy and fulfilling promises. Surely teaching our children about these things is one of the most powerful things we can do to honour the life of Queen Elizabeth?
Please let me know if you would like support for your child who may be grieving for a special person. Call me for a free ten minute chat! 07746756871 or email me at enquiries@thechildsperspective.co.uk

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